My Experience

Once upon a time, in not so distant lands I was at various points:  an award-winning athlete, an army medic, a sailing dilettante, a rock climber, an international community organizer and a child care worker. My past lives have imbued within me physical strength, discipline, mental acuity, strategy, flexibility, humor and creativity, all of which I utilize when working with individuals who submit to me. I am constantly inspired by these brave souls who seek knowledge and transformation despite societal intentions to limit what we know and think about and what we do. Therefore I approach each session as a shared journey. It is a journey where we explore the depths of our passions, access our erotic power and realize fantasies in safe and engaging ways.

My Style

My style of play ranges from strict to sensual, depending on my mood and the energy that flows between us. I can be demanding, cruel, intimidating, devious, soothing, sharp, tender, merciless AND merciful. Whatever method I employ I am always seeking the inner mysteries of those who submit to me. Whether you seek a custom-made cocktail of pleasure and pain or an enduring mind fuck, together we will discover, nurture and exploit aspects of you that have yet to be realized, developing a bond that revolves around our shared experience of pushing beyond limitation.

You can trust that every activity we engage in together is an activity that I enjoy and in which I am soundly proficient. Safety, enjoyment and discretion are my top priorities. To that end, I am constantly honing my skills and broadening my understanding of the vast and plentiful world of erotic play, through play parties, workshops, educational groups, and conferences. I am a recent graduate of the Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts where I expanded my knowledge on the psychology, physicality, sexuality and spirituality of BDSM (http://www.sm-arts.com)

My Medium

I am an avid and accomplished rope rigger. While past experiences in sailing and rock climbing have provided me with technical rope skills, I was introduced to the sensuality of rope and bondage through a monthly rope group called Nawa Shibari Chicago. It was in attending these meetings that I fell in love with the soul of rope. I enjoy restraining and decorating bodies in everything from soft nylon, to rough, unyielding hemp. I enjoy the rush I get and that I exchange with my captive as rope binds against skin, immobilizes the body and sharpens sensations. Sometimes I utilize bondage in play as a scrumptious appetizer; other times – particularly with suspension – it is the seven-course meal.

Beyond rope, I enjoy many different genres of erotic play, particularly corporal disciple, medical play, and creative role playing. Perhaps you’re interested in meeting my Daddy persona and joining Malcolm Deveareaux’s House of Salacious Sluts. First you must complete your training, you TRAMP, which ranges from personal grooming, to personal cleansing, and includes various activities that are meant to test and exercise your feminine acumen. Lectures, demonstrations and pop quizzes abound. It is the place where gender play meets school play, where sensuality meets rigorous discipline, punishment, and the most unique rewards.

When it comes to corporal discipline my hands are my most prized weapons of ASS destruction, but make no mistake, I never hesitate to paddle, to cane, to flog, to whip, to pierce, or to puncture, whatever I might fancy in that moment.  But be prepared. Taking my blows is like being kissed by lightening. And when I’m through, when I’m fully satisfied and you’re very soul has been ripped to shreds, your only regret will be not having enough skin left to withstand more.

Your Servitude

Your service to me must include integrity, honesty, respect and a deep desire to explore and expand your limits. In turn, I will respect your limits while negotiating the methods we will utilize to reach and to push against them. I believe in safe, sane and consensual play and fully appreciate many flavors of fetish, pain levels, novice and experienced players, as well as couples.

While I cater to deviant and erotic play, I DO NOT cater to escort or sexual activities.